HOW CAN WE MAKE OUR RELATİONSHİP BETTER WİTH ENGLİSH NATİVE SPEAKERS ?

How you ever struggle to making friends with English Speakers ? İf so then this writing is for you ! Now we will be talk about cultural stuff ones as well

Since there are many diffrent speaking English country around the world. I will use the word English speaker to refer to people who speak English as native English. There are some cultural differences between speaking English countries. But in general advice I will share with you in this writing will apply general situations so lets get start it!

İn speaking english culture, chooses are very important. We value each person right ? and so when we have conservation with each other we tent to talk about to choices a lot. We complement choices we share choices and we give advice about futura choices and here are four tips for having better conservation with english speakers.
The first tip is show interest own their story when I say to story here I mean the story of the life. When you watching movie or reading a book you get interest the story. you want to know more what happened to next. This is the same attitude you should have when you talking to in potantial speaking English with friend.

Be interest it in their life story. you can show them that you are interesting by asking them about their life. for example you can ask where are you from after they answer you can ask them more about the place they are from and then they will say about their hometown, the weather, economy and lifestyle.

There after that you can ask them about their job by asking " what do you do for living ?"  Once they answer you should follow up asking for their job to learn more detail you can ask things like that" How long have been doing that ?" or " Do you enjoy with your work? " or " Where is the your ofice located ?" by asking these questions that you are showing them that you are interesting thier story. You are showing interest in the choices that they have made in their lifeas well This is the first step to making a good relationship with English speakers .

The second tips : Don`t ask these questions

Showing in interest person`s story is great but there are some part of story that they are off limits. That means they are something you should not ask about those things are physically appearance , personal finances, politics, and religion.
 İn general you should avoid talk about these things till you have already become very close with the other person that means you should not ask these questions till known the person for quite sometime 

Lets talk about why these are not good conservation topics. 

First: Physically apperance is something you don`t really talk about. This is because physicall apperance is not your choice, you have no choice how nose looks or how big or small your eyes are that means you don`t talk about skinny or fat someone is , you don`t talk about facial features small nose or ear size, you dont talk about how handsome or beauty somone is .